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Shirley (Smith) DeFEO

November 3, 1927 — March 11, 2021

DeFEO, Shirley (Smith), age 93, of Westwood MA died peacefully on March 11, 2021. She was born on November 3, 1927 in Medford, MA to A. Dudley and Doris (Hurlburt) Smith.

Shirley is survived by her two daughters, Susan Bourdon and husband Kevin of Waltham, VT and Cynthia Dowling, and husband Mark of North Attleborough, MA; six grandchildren, Christopher, and wife Miranda. Rampone; Mark Bourdon; Scott Bourdon; Alison, and husband Luke Russett; Harrison Dowling; and Jennifer Dowling; one great grandchild, Genevieve Rampone.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Memorial Service in celebration of Shirley's life on Saturday morning May 22nd at 11am in the First Parish of Westwood United Church, 252 Nahatan St., Westwood. Gifts in her memory can be made to VNA Hospice & Palliative Care in memory of Shirley DeFeo to support patient care at VNA Care, 120 Thomas St., Worcester, MA 01608 or via

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